I'm 18 and I stutter. I have dated 5 people now. The thing is if you can't love yourself because of your stutter no one can love you. Better go to that girl you want and talk to her. Allow her to see your personality allow her to know what you are good at and let her discover your stutter. And show her that you are not put down by your stutter. She will only see it the way you want her to see it. If you see it as a burden she will see it as a burden too and a reason not to date you. I don't mean you should see it as a gift. But you should know it will never leave you it is yours forever if you don't accept it as part of you you will never be happy and no one want's an unhappy person for a lover. It's hard to accept it and I haven't accepted it too but we gotta try we gotta survive. I'm gonna talk to my crush today at 3pm will tell you the good news later if it goes well