I made a post about exactly this a few weeks ago, please read: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/jf8r5s/we\_are\_living\_life\_on\_hard\_mode/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/jf8r5s/we_are_living_life_on_hard_mode/) TL:DR of above: Suck it up, think about your situation, make conscious decisions (within relationships for example) and work hard. Harder than those around you.