The banner of this sub is slam filled with people that don't agree with #2 If you want to give up in certain situations, that's on you. I work in a career that requires me to speak more often than I'm truly comfortable with. Usually conference calls with 20+ people. I never thought I'd be able to do this, but I do it. I make it work. Sometimes it really sucks. I couldn't face myself if I gave up and let this rule my life