I'm also 31 and have had a similar experience. I'm a Christian and the way I interpret finding a significant other, like the RIGHT woman I mean, is its something that is in many ways beyond our control. We have to let God work in our lives to bring us to the right woman. In the meantime, just focus on being really proud of your accomplishments and working toward your goals, living your life and appreciating everything in it and building the kind of life you want. For some women, your stutter may have been an issue to them, but you know what? Who cares about them! Who are they? Nobody and nothing. You may very well find a woman who appreciates every last thing about you and loves you for all of it. Maybe a woman who speaks very fluently or maybe a woman who also stutters. I'm hoping to find a woman who stutters I guess, because she'll be able to fully relate to me on that level. Focus your efforts on finding the RIGHT woman. I've dated so many wrong women, that I can definitively tell you, sometimes alone is better! But man, we're still young. The way I see it, 31 is the new 21. I plan on living to be 100. Life is just beginning.