The victim mindset is real but when you accept it it becomes OK. I've learned not to point it out or apologize for my speech and it's helped me immensely. I'm 37 and stuttered my whole life. It's me, and that's what ya get with me. I am me! Down syndrome people don't apologize in advance for being who they are, they just are. Same with anyone else, just be you. We can't all be billionaires but we can all be comfortable. Try it... it's nice