For its that some days are better and some days are worse. Some situations are better and some are worse. So each moment or each day I’m trying to make it the best of the best. Sometimes it’s really frustrating, it’s true. But giving up leads to a lifetime of frustrations. It’s a numbers game, people need to get out and meet people. People everywhere are desperate for real interaction and true friendships and that’s what inspires me. I’ve been happily married now 4 years and been with my wife for 10 years. One secret is to keep the excitement alive and to not be self-defeating but like anyone with challenges, to take them in stride and with dignity and to have humility which means to understand there are others out there in way worse situations than us and to be grateful for what we DO have and our opportunities. To utilize them to the fullest, it’s our/your obligation to yourself and those that care about you.