For me anyways, its more like making peace with it in the sense that most never completely get rid of it. Before I made peace with my stutter I would get very visibly frustrated with myself whenever I stammered, which just made me stammer more. It also made everyone around me uncomfortable. But once I made my peace with it, I stopped getting as frustrated, putting those around me more at ease and it no longer consumes me. Its not something that will happen quickly, it was a gradual thing for me so Im not really sure what I can say more than that.