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Your approach to the situation is admirable. For what it's worth; I think you are doing all the right things. I'm now 42 and I've been through it all growing up. Bullying, anxiety of speaking in front of a larger audience and a general reluctance to speak at all in certain situations. But, on the flipside of that, I've also had (still have) great friends that support me (in the way that they don't care - which makes me stutter way less when I'm with them) and I've found that being open about the condition really takes the edge off. I still, to this day, freeze up abit every now and then. Especially now with Covid where phone-conferences are much more common and I have to speak a language not native to myself. In situations where a word simply refuse to cooperate, I usually make a lough "bleh", giggle abit and say "sorry, I have a stutter". The giggling part is mostly for myself, as to kind of take it lightly, but I've also found that when other people see that I'm not bothered, they're usually not bothered either - which have the bonus effect of me stuttering less next time. I think the best you can do as a parent, is dealing with it just the way you have described yourself. You can't make the world stop hurting your loved ones, but you can make it easier for them - simply by being there. I grew up in the 80's, but I am sure that it would have been much easier today with the internet where I could seek communities dealing with the same thing. That way, I wouldn't have felt so alone as I did at times. And, your daughter will most likely become very smart and quick-thinking. How many persons (aside from your friend) do you know of that are capable of starting a sentence, knowing which word will block and spend the milliseconds up to that point finding a word to replace it or finding a way to rephrase the sentence entirely and still getting the point across? It's a form of mental gymnastics that will make you a walking thesaurus.