I see what you're saying but there has been many times during my journey that I have asked for directions and the person just walked off. If I were to see that as a loss because I didn't get directions. That would be useless. I took the action and did it. I grew. BUT like you said if I were to get the directions, there would be a certain win in that too. Just careful about not attaching emotions to outcomes of other individuals. Thanks for that:)