Thank you for the kind words, and congratulations on your anniversary. I hear this a lot; the problem is that the clubs I've participated in in the past haven't led to anything; most of them were primarily male, and a lot of the things I'm interested in are male dominated as well. There are several co-ed clubs I'd enjoy, but those I don't have time for (for example our skiing club is full of gorgeous women, but I don't have time for weekly ski trips/practices). I never had a fake and I'm 21 now, so a friend of mine wants to take me to bars at some point, but I know that I'm going to have no "bar game." Plus, I don't really have many friends, and the ones I do have aren't fantastic with women themselves.