Don't go on a place where you just have to sit and talk, it's gonna be a bit tricky for you (not impossible) Rather go on places with games like bowling or something adventurous where you both have a common goal. Or you can try your fav thing which you are good at, could be anything. All the best, and remember girls don't care about this if she's really the one, am saying being in a same for 9 years. What depends is how you make her feel amd what are your thoughts and goals and more.