How do you see the positives/good in your stutter/self?

How do you see the positives/good in your stutter/self? I've been trying to feel more confident but every time I hear myself speak or hear my voice I just can't help but be ashamed and annoyed of it. For the ones who might have felt like this or people who are naturally confident in themselves. What were the steps you took, to I guess love yourself as you were.