I only got about half way through, but if this is to be a safe and welcoming place for people who stutter then I think we need to let people express themselves. Many people don't/can't talk about stuttering anywhere else and I think need a place where they can let out how they feel. Telling people to be positive or noting how other people have it worse is likely going to have a negative effect, because you are essentially invalidating how they're feeling. We're all at different places on our stuttering journeys and we can't really push people to a new stage. I bet there was a time when you hated your stutter and only thought about fluency too. We can't make people see things differently if they're not ready yet, all we can do is show them there are other options.