Wow. This. Thank you so much for this- you have a lot of wisdom and I appreciate your honesty. I COMPLETELY hear what you’re saying, I feel like since it got worse the past two years I’ve HAD to talk about it outwardly, mainly because if I didn’t, more people could think they have a one up you know? Or talk down to me. I figure if I appear to “own it,” I can’t be get hurt! Def a work in progress on that one. Thank you so much for this advice seriously, it’s wonderful. You’re so right