Thats the problem for me...I feel horrible after i stutter !! Other people are usually nice in their response...but its me...i feel like s***, inferior, disabled, shame !! How to accept that ??? Its involuntary thinking...no matter how many times i say the opposite to myself the feeling inside contradict those orally encouragement... If only i can accept my stutter, then i wouldnt have much problem judging myself based on my actions and preservance...