Yeah, I feel like you might have written about it here before, but maybe the details are different this time? Not sure.... Definitely the kind of situation you relive and wish you had done something like what you say here. She could have done with some shame for saying that. But it's usually just too shocking in the moment. It was wonderfully mindless of her not to consider that you could be the same person she was talking about. But, yeah, she may know by now that it was you. Miserable woman.