I consider that I am from both sides, there was a time when I hated being me, I hated myself for how I was, for being a stutterer, but there are times when I stop caring about my condition and I simply try to be happy, it is usually difficult, but it won by making "myself" feel bad, which won by telling me bad things, there are bad days and good days, you just have to learn to stutter and since there are bad people there are good people, and let's be happy and if you don't want to be happy you already know the solution and don't be giving bad advice to those of us who try to continue even knowing this condition 🙃.