Your english so you're hard to parse sorry, but you kind of agree with me in the very first sentence. If a girl can be perceived as cute in certain places, that means her gender plays a role in the way she and her stutter is perceived, no? I never said guys couldn't be seen as shy either, I explicitly said that I don't know for sure. But if you think about it for more than five seconds, it becomes clear that there would be SOME difference due to the fact that men and women are already treated differently. Unless you truly believe that men and women just aren't treated differently. Idk what to tell you if you think that. Ignoring things like that is a form of anti-intellectualism