postr/StutterApril 2, 2022

The anxieties of dating (24F)

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The anxieties of dating (24F) My stutter is moderate, but lately it’s flared up quite a bit as I’ve been under a bit of stress in this season of my life. I decided to go on a date last night and I stuttered a lot and think I totally bombed it. I’m a pretty confident person, and hate having to think how others perceive me. Did he notice? Does he not like me because I hesitated too much and sounded stupid/ less intelligent? Ruminating thoughts are taking over and I was hoping I could get some advice on how to deal with them. Thanks

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Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life