I kind of agree, but not all disabilities are equal. I mean, just asking someone out is literally a physical struggle if you stutter. Going up to someone and getting stuck on "Hi" is just offputting to most people, realistically speaking. And that's beside that fact that stuttering itself is associated with bad personality traits. Obviously it can always be worse, but I'm just being realistic here. It's literally happened to me. Something like being in a wheelchair or missing an arm, etc, isn't associated with personality traits. It's generally just that a person may not want to deal with taking care of someone in a wheel chair if they find a person that's a dick. Which sure, would probably happen.