Being a Bully to others who never wronged you so that you feel stronger is one of the most pathetic weak ass shit a human can do honestly...you'll never be a real man that way..if you feel like being soft spoken be soft spoken but always stick up for yourself...school kids think who ever is the loudest in the group is the strongest..in real life it's the opposite 99% of the time. Loud mouth raging bullies usually turn into little girls when they get beat up...to be a strong man treat everybody with respect even those smaller & weaker than you. Always stick up for yourself, your loved ones & people in need of help when you can..never be a loud mouth, you can be soft spoken bc people of substance listen more intensely when you talk like that. But speak with confidence at the same time...all in all being a moral strong man is way harder than being cowardly bully who is a slave to his feminine emotions & insecurities even tho he may seem strong.