What i realized in the last 25 years of my life and the best tip i give to people who stutter or don't stutter is: Don't think for others, it's not something you can control. If you want to know how people think ask them or, if they are bold enough they will tell you. Things i can do: Express my self verbally and non verbally. When i stutter, i stutter with a smile. It's a thing i do to let people know i don't give a crap how i look doing it. I have some control over my stutter but most of the time it's just the state of my mental health. Improve that and i'm Gucchi. Make your self happy and enjoy your life to the fullest.