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Finding work that doesn’t require much in the way of public interaction is key to increasing your likelihood of success and confidence. Be up front with your stuttering and don’t waste your time or there’s applying for any and all jobs. You could do landscaping, construction, store stocking shelves, warehouse work, forklift driving, carpet cleaning, etc. You can train or apprentice as a plumber, mechanic, electrician, carpenter, etc. You could be a bookkeeper or input medical data. There are many things you can do but whatever you do be upfront with your employer and express that you are a hard worker. You can’t let your anxiety stop you from working altogether—-stuttering is shitty and embarrassing but people are relying you and in the end you will be happier facing it. Worst of all don’t do the no show no call bullshit. It’s irresponsible and unfair to the employer. As soon as you knew you’d have to interact with the public you could have told them you wouldn’t or couldn’t do that. You could have texted them that or had your wife do that. The you can face your anxiety and carry on in spite of it the happier you will be. It may be scary and painful but it gets easier with time and the alternative is much worse. Not only that stuttering is an avoidance anxiety disorder. The more you avoid—the worse it gets. The more you speak in spite of your fears the easier it is and the more fluent you are. My mechanic is a stutterer. He doesn’t have to speak much but he does need to speak with the public to a degree. Does he stutter? Yup, but he does his job anyway. You can find something that works for you if you don’t let fear win. Counseling and possibly medication for anxiety would help. You can do this.