>with having stutter I can't even find a girl There are stutterers who are in relationships. :) - >all girls love only confident guys That's not true. We all have varying preferences. :) - >clear/loud speech is a MAIN part of it I agree that speech can have this function, but in general, it's the overall behavior that carries it. - >After I stutter badly girls think I am not confident myself and they start to look down on me How do you know this? Do you ask them about it? It might just be something you're imagining.