Like someone else said, improve yourself first. Go lift. Come back when you are comfortable in your own body then that will give you more self confidence and hopefully lessen your stutter. I didnt get laid til 22. I'm 24 now. Once you done that, get over your approach anxiety. The more you do it, the less anxious you'll get. You wont even give a fuck about the stutter then. Thats what I've done. I'll still stutter but its whatever. Learn to live with it and laugh about it. I haven't had a girlfriend but just by sheer confidence I've had luck with several women. Last time I got some when I went out with some friends was on memorial day weekend. Sure it was a while ago but work right now impedes me from going out as often. That and the fact I'm 3.5 hours away from a major city. Anyways, I got me and a buddy laid. I barely had to do any talking. I made smart ass comments and light flirting. I got approached from the beginning by two girls and I just played it cool as if it always happens. This was at a club. And I hate clubs and I can't dance. But I still danced as if I knew how and that alone was enough. I let my buddy take one of the girle, and the one that was more interested in me was mine. First time it's ever happened but you gotta know the game and how its played. I'd like to say that my physique is what got me laid because that's all she was interested in.