Maybe it’s just me but I think there’s been a shift in online discussions since the pandemic. It really did a number on a lot of people and people now seem driven by confirmation bias than being more open minded, speaking very generally. I do agree that for support subs like this one, people should be a lot more gentle on themselves and each other. That’s the point of supportive communities. People should feel free to share perspectives or experiences without feeling judged or experiencing a negative pushback