Bullshit. Do you blame them for giving you brown eyes instead of blue or being short instead of tall or whatever? Do you thank them for being born here instead of there? Gimme a break. I have two kids neither of which stutter but maybe I'll have a grand child one day that will. Both have thin brown hair like me instead of luxurious black hair like their mother. If they blame me for that they should get over it. Stuttering is our lot in life. You can either accept it or continue to wallow in misery. Or maybe you're young. I remember being rejected by girls, jobs, and opportunities but I was embraced by others. It does get better.