I have the same problem, reading is no problem but speaking from free-flowing thoughts is where the blocks start to come. I have been experimenting with using DAF (sound delay audiotry feedback) while speaking I just have this little program running in the backround on my phone and one bluetooth ear piece to hear my self alittle bit while i speak. It seems to help quite a bit, its still a learning process i only been experimenting with it afew days., maybe some of you know anything about any new methods ? maybe AI will help us some, i think there has to be a way out for us to be fluent i hate not being able to speak to girls the way i want to do it