I feel that way too about things. I learned that communication is like 70-80 percent nonverbal. We communicate more through tone, eye contact, and facial expressions. Everyone does judge to an extent I think. It is a survival mechanism to size people up. It is like we have this innate ability to size each other up on the social hierarchy. People judge over skin, symmetry (facial features), and proportion. All this has a role into how people view each other to some degree. It is all about how we talk to each other too.