Exactly. Unless she’s received advanced training in speech dysfluency, she likely has *no clue* how emotionally shameful/taxing a stutter can be for some, or even that you consider it a disability. Everyone who speaks occasionally stutters, but most have no shame attached to it. Several audible repetitions can be a cute or endearing thing to a listener, so I’m thinking she is trying to understand your perspective, which is a green flag.