I struggled out of highschool really bad cause the name I go by starts with a C and that’s one of my worst letters so introducing myself to women was always really hard, but I of course had my decent days where I could at least get it out once but could barely speak after that, after college I gave up and I just didn’t even try approaching girls, if something happened I would try to push it further but usually nothing happened, until I met my fiancé, I was the “super quiet, mysterious” guy at work. Me and her started by just doing stupid little nods to each other through the day, then we would say like 1 sentence to each other and then started talking, so you don’t ALWAYS have to just talk a shit ton right out the gate, if you work with someone cute, just do little passing goofy things with each other and build that unspoken relationship and go from there