commentr/StutterAugust 22, 2023

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If your stutter makes you unattractive in some people's eyes, then you already know they are people you don't want to spend your life with. A lot of women, though, really don't mind if guys have a stutter. Women like guys with something 'weird' such as a stutter. Not because they think you're weird, but because it makes a person more interesting, more layered and most likely more deeper personality. There are LOTS of good women (and men) out there, who would 100% want to be with you regardless of your stutter, and who will 100% be super gf/bf material. If someone doesn't like you because of your stutter, simply move on. You don't want to waste time on people who don't appreciate you, when there's some other women/man out there who will 100% appreciate you in their life and be grateful to have you. I (m33) had the same mentality. Dated a few times, but only met my gf when I was 26. I told myself, "If she doesn't like me because of my stutter, or anything else, it's not meant to be." and I chose to be 100% myself on the first date, because you want somebody to love you for your authentic self. 5 years later, married to the same woman, 1 kid. Again, if some woman/man doesn't like you because of stuttering or anything else, don't waste time, just move on. There is 100% somewhere out there waiting for YOU. You just need to set aside your fear of reaching out.

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Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support

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Acceptance & PrideDating & RomanceValidation & Empathy