I hear ya, I worried a bit about this, too. I have a two year old son and another son due in May. As other folks have said, you can't let this define you. My wife said that I would be the best coach/advocate if our children do stutter. And my life hasn't been that bad with a stutter either -- I have friends, a great job, a wife and kids. Stuttering is just another trait that some folks get.