Do you accept your stutter? Or do you accept fluency? Why?

Do you accept your stutter? Or do you accept fluency? Why? 1. In your experience, what mindset helps improve your speech? \- "I accept stuttering (to reduce fear and manage/control stuttering)" or \- "I accept fluency (because if I accept that I will stutter, then of course I'm gonna expect a stutter every time I enter a situation) (because if I always think: "I stutter because it's neurological", then of course I expect a stutter every time I enter a situation)" 2. Why does that mindset improve your speech exactly?