^ I couldn't agree more. I can empathize with exactly how you feel OP, but I promise you are far from incompetent. Stuttering can be a hurdle sometimes, but it's almost never a wall and the world is becoming more and more friendly for those who struggle with verbal communication. There is lots of apps that allow you to order food, look for jobs with short/limited interactions (i.e. night shifts, stocking, cleaning, etc.), and say fuck it to anyone who will judge you, you don't want them anyway. But more than anything, be patient with yourself. It's easy for us who stutter to project our insecurities and frustrations onto others because we experience it so deeply, but to the most everyone else it's a small part of who you actually are (plus a lot of people think it's cute).