Thanks for the advice, ive actually been trying to work on myself. About 3 years ago I started losing weight and very slowly but surely I'm 100 pounds down, still trying to lose about 50-70 more. Also I am still technically obese but don't think I really look it because my height. The hairstyle I also think I found too. But I have been thinking, I do think the weight is definitely what is holding me back on sites.