Thank you for your reply and no it doesn't run in the family, not for any family I've ever met anyway. I'll work on not looking upset when I'm waiting on him to get out what he is trying to say, I'm glad you said that because with 4 kids I have so much going on at one time there is always the chance that i can look impatient so I will make sure to be aware of my facial expressions. I'll have to explain that to my kids too to be patient with him. Should I do the thing where I know what he is trying to say so I say it myself to help him along is is that wrong? I've heard both that it can piss people off and not so I didn't know.