I think it’s someone that cares about you or cares about the fact it can be difficult to communicate sometimes. They are saying it’s ok…I think you are great just the way you are. It really makes no difference it’s if true or not…because they are showing kindness in the best way they think they can. If it’s someone close to you, feel free to offer your explanation. If it’s not someone close, you can smile and give them validation for being kind or smile and politely say I wish…it’s actually…