I can't help you much cause I've never dated before. However stutterering is the least of those reasons. My reasons are by far related more to below average looks, lack of experience, sheltered upbringing and general unawareness of where to meet women. I don't even think about my stutter when I talk most of the time. I've accepted it and I haven't really had many problems unless I've made it a problem. I don't think my stutter would nessecarily hold me back. Ive done alot of public speaking, talking to random strangers and even despite my stutter I can converse fairly well with most people. I have been rejected multiple times and I take it fairly well now despite the fact that I've only ever been rejected. I don't think I've ever been rejected because of my stutter though. You build up immunity to it very quickly so no offense but I hope you get shot down alot. What I can say is that I let go of any expectations and goals in anything. I don't really care at this point I just try my best and hopefully that works. I do this for every aspect of my life. It kills anxiety of failing cause if you give everything you got, literally that's all you could have given it and the outcome is at that point out of your control. And if you fail you would have lost nothing cause you had no expectations and goals to begin with. Honestly having this mindset will make you worry less about "failing" with women.