Think of Barack Obama. Most people would agree that he's an excellent speaker (regardless of your political view). But there are many other people that will give him shit for speaking too slowly, or using ums and ah, or being too soft spoken, or being too vague, or being too woke. Now Barack has a choice: he can let those people hurt him. Or he can simply ignore the haters and naysayers, and continue doing what he does. I cannot imagine any haters ruining Barack's mood. Why? Cause he has perfected the art of giving zero fucks. My point is everyone encounters these a$$h#$% in their life. It reflects on the kind of person THEY are, and has NOTHING to do with you. It took me long time to learn the art of giving zero fucks, but one I did I'm a much happeir and fulfiller person....