How you feel secure in a relationship then? If other men can come up and (atleast indirectly) hit on your gf and there's nothing you can really do, how do you not feel anxious constantly? If I'm dating a girl and another guy starts talking to her, making her laugh and giggle am I supposed to just walk away and hope she likes me enough she'll stay? Clearly if she's straight up cheating on me I can call her out on it, but I can't demand she just doesn't "talk" to other guys... This is so emasculating...