That's not at all what I said. I said don't be ugly just cause you're not interested. The immediate "Fuck You" doesn't solve an issue for people that still have hope for a change. When I was 18 ,my 60 year old uncle still stuttered. It hurt me to hear it. That's when I decided it had to be different for me. Never give up. Believe me. You can do anything you at your mind to. If I never listened to self help tapes, I never would have gone to Dale Carnegie. If I never went there, I never would've met a Man that suffered the same pain.