commentr/StutterApril 4, 2018
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I used to create webpages for women I liked. They were meme-like and designed to elicit a response. And in general... Don't be unattractive. Find a way to express yourself via fashion. Get clean. Make that hair sharp. Treat people well. Work out at least a little. Figure your shit out. See a therapist so you understand your feelings and learn to accept who you are so you can be the person you want to be. I'm off-topic but picking up women is SOOO much easier when you got your shit together and have energy to be **present in the moment**. I think we stutterers have a tendency to live in our head too much because talking can be hard. Also, rejection happens.
Themes
Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Subthemes
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking