Nah, even the first date was difficult to arrange because he either cancelled or rescheduled, and the same happened with the second date. So I wanted to set some boundaries and let him know, that this is not comfortable for me and I tried to phrase it in a way that is polite and straightforward but leave the opportunity of a second date open. He's seen the message but did not react at all. :/ Anyway, thank you very much for your kind words and following up, it was a heartwarming thing in this disappointing situation. :)