I think a better approach is to ask yourself a question. What do I like to do? For example, let's say you like golf and you visit a Top Golf place where you can eat, drink and hit balls. That is a natural environment in which to socialize with women (who also like to golf). Cold call dating, as we old folk call it, is very damaging to your self-esteem if you haven't done it already. The rejection can be very hard to swallow. Do things that make you happy and let the connection happen organically. I met the love of my life at a restaurant (I liked going out to eat at different restaurants to expand my pallet). On February 19th, we are celebrating our 25th anniversary. Just my 2 cents