i were hurt by a friend telling me to step out my comfort zone when it's all i did these past few months but those efforts were never recognized or seen by her

i were hurt by a friend telling me to step out my comfort zone when it's all i did these past few months but those efforts were never recognized or seen by her We don't contacted for like months so she don't really know about my life, heck I even refuse to tell about my life to her because of how uncomfortable it is for me. It is a very saddening fact that I no longer feel comfortable with her (we used to be a really good friend) and I don't think we can be normal friends anymore (now kinda like strangers, every interaction feel forced). Just a vent.