postr/StutterSeptember 4, 2023

Has any other men noticed this is their relationship

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Has any other men noticed this is their relationship So obviously us stutters have no problem getting women or getting into a relationship but I was wondering have any of you guys ever noticed this I notice that women lose interest or attraction in you after they realize your afraid or “scared” to talk I had this one girl we were at McDonald’s and instead of going to the counter I used the self order thing 😂😂 and she kept asking me “WHy DoNT yOu JuSt Go uP n OrDeR YouR FOoD” like 3x times Then we went to dominos and I ask her to go in and order the food because I didn’t feel like it, (not because I was scared to talk but I just genuinely didn’t feel like it) then she says “WHY? IM NOT GONNA TALK FOR YOU” And after that I felt everything in our relationship go down hill And other thing happened in another relationship of mine But I’m just like wtf??? Cause I usually do all the talking anyways like it’s never a problem for me I’ve never thought “I’m scared to stutter in public in front of my gf while ordering food or whatever” Maybe it’s all just in my head I was just wondering are there any other guys who had similar experiences

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Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment