YES! It’s that spontaneity and turnaround time that make me internally panic. Like I need to respond now, I don’t have the time to respond, I don’t know what I want to say, let alone how I’m gonna say it. And how to compress and organize these thoughts in those 1-2 seconds, like damn, can we catch a break?! Lmao. “Um” and “Well let’s see” are such great placeholders. I’d honestly like to use them a little less, but we gotta do what we gotta do right? It really just is what it is.