Wow! You're onto something when you can reduce your pain so successfully. Little_Acanthaceae, I don't know how to dm on Reddit, but if you do, I'd like to message you about a project I’d like to do on this Reddit forum. I think you would be very helpful to others. Your maturity, intelligent posts, and empathy would help with what I’m thinking about doing. Can you dm me or tell me how to dm you? Sue