Oh my goodness!!! Good for you!!! There is nothing virtuous about keeping yourself miserable. I'm sure you have incredible things to offer this world and that misery is surely holding you back. I think the virtuous thing is to do what you need to do to be in a space where you are appreciated and engaged and have a sense of purpose! Good luck. If you need to quit, Google Harvey quoting this job today and or five iron frenzy plan b Live it up!!